Welcome to the Idibidi Kids BLOG. My interests include parent-infant mental health, positive attachment, childrens health and wellbeing, autism and Tourette Syndrome. From 2020 I can now add homeschool/unschooling mama. I have been studying a BA Psychology with Edith Cowan University for 9 years now. What a journey it has been!. Thank you for visiting, Natalie.

Friday, 11 December 2009
6PR radio interview with Howard Sattler
Monday, 7 December 2009
Colic And Massage For Your Baby
Tuesday, 1 December 2009
Sanctuary Markets come to the City of Joondalup
Idibidi Kids together with the WAHM network are excited to announce the Sanctuary Markets!
Friday, 27 November 2009
Nurturing Touch in the NICU and beyond: a Guide for Parents and Caregivers
An article I wrote for the L'il Aussie Prems website on the importance of parents in providing positive, nurturing touch for their premature baby in the NICU and beyond.
Thursday, 5 November 2009
Children with ADHD & ADD and Massage
Another study involved kids aged 7-18, 20 percent of whom were girls. Each subject received a 20-minute massage twice a week. They showed immediate improvement in their moods and longer-term behavioral improvement in the classroom. They also reported feeling happier and their teachers found them to be more attentive.
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder
Field, T., Quintino, O., Hernandez-Reif, M. & Koslovsky, G. (1998). Adolescents with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder benefit from massage therapy. Adolescence, 33, 103-108.
METHOD: Twenty-eight adolescents with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder were provided either massage therapy or relaxation therapy for 10 consecutive school days. RESULTS: The massage therapy group, but not the relaxation therapy group, rated themselves as happier and observers rated them as fidgeting less following the sessions. After the 2-week period, their teachers reported more time on task and assigned them lower hyperactivity scores based on classroom behavior.
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Khilnani, S., Field, T., Hernandez-Reif, M., & Schanberg, S. (2003). Massage therapy improves mood and behavior of students with attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder. Adolescence, 38, 623-38.
METHOD: The present study involved 30 children and adolescents between the ages of 7 and 18 (M = 13) diagnosed with attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). The children were randomly assigned to a wait-list control and a massage group. The latter group received massage therapy for 20 minutes twice per week over the course of one month. RESULTS: Mood state improved for the massage but not the control group based on smiley face and thermometer scales. The massage group also improved in classroom behavior in the areas of the Conners Teacher Rating Scales on anxiety, daydreaming and hyperactivity. The wait-list control group did not show these gains. In sum, the results revealed that massage therapy benefited children and adolescents with ADHD by improving short-term mood state and longer-term classroom behavior.
Tuesday, 3 November 2009
Christmas Gift Packages
Sunday, 25 October 2009
Saturday, 24 October 2009
Nurturing Touch Vital for Babies and Children's Health: Parents and Caregivers
Read the article below:
NURTURING TOUCH VITAL FOR BABIES AND CHILDREN’S HEALTH:
Natalie Garmson is a certified infant massage instructor (CIMI), West Australian State rep. for the IAIM, Massage in Schools Instructor and a mother of two boys who both have received massage since birth. She is dedicated to educating, teaching massage instruction and raising awareness of infant and children’s massage. She is also a keen researcher and reader (time allowing!). Natalie’s website is www.idibidikids.com.au
Friday, 28 August 2009
My Child magazine: 5 REASONS TO MASSAGE YOUR BABY... and CHILD!
For those of you who dont read My Child magazine, or missed the Autumn 2009 Issue 12 ed., Natalie (Idibidi Kids) contributed an article in the INFANCY section.... Idibidi Kids is currently writing another article to contribute early 2010, about baby reflexes, further info to follow on the Idibidi Kids BLOG! Here is a snippet:
Idibidi Kids out on the road...
Saturday, 8 August 2009
PREGNANCY, BABIES AND CHILDREN'S EXPO Perth
Pregnancy, Babies and Children's expo is coming to Perth 14th to 16th August 2009.
Sunday, 2 August 2009
INFANT MASSAGE AWARENESS WEEK
Infant Massage Awareness Week
Friday, 24 July 2009
MARULA OIL now in stock!
Organic, cold pressed Marula oil is now in stock @ Idibidi Kids. Please visit www.idibidikids.com.au/products
Friday, 17 July 2009
Friendships are a true gift...
Monday, 15 June 2009
How massage will assist your colicky baby
The Colic Relief Routine as it is known is an easy to follow routine that has been scientifically researched to provide stimulation for the digestive system and therefore relief of abdominal wind, gastrointestinal (digestive) cramping, and constipation and also helps to assist elimination. This particular routine also releases built-up stress by calming and relaxing your baby and relaxing the stomach area.
It is extremely important to always massage your baby’s tummy in a clockwise direction. This is to support the flow of the gastrointestinal system. When pockets of air are trapped in the gastrointestinal system this causes excruciating pain for your baby; this is physically what your baby is experiencing in a colicky episode.
It is frustrating to think that doctors and health professionals do not know the single cause of colic. Quite often you will hear “don’t worry; they will grow out of it.” I know I did when my first born was about 5 weeks old. That was nearly 10 years ago now but I still remember to this day the constant crying and feeling of helplessness. Little did I know the healing power of touch was in my hands!
Typical symptoms infants with colic have experienced include:
• tense legs
• firm, swollen abdomen
• pulling of knees into stomach
• a painful cry lasting for extended periods (sometimes hours)
• difficulty tolerating stimulation
• arching of back and neck
As a parent or caregiver, some things to ask yourself include:
• Does the crying occur in a predictable pattern eg the same time each day?
• When does your baby cry? Look for symptoms relating to diet, over-stimulation, intolerance to certain foods / cows milk / lactose.
• Are there any patterns emerging?
Given the immaturity of the digestive system in most infants, this may contribute to a large portion of colicky babies. Massage is ideal for stimulating the digestive system and for helping it to function properly.
How can massage assist a windy or colicky baby?
Learning the Colic Relief Routine involves a series of massage strokes, touch relaxation and resting hand techniques to stimulate the digestive process, relax your baby and provide relief from symptoms. Applying nurturing touch releases relaxing hormones and reduces stress hormones such as cortisol in your baby. There are many studies done to support this, the main source worldwide comes from The Touch Research Institute, Miami, Florida, U.S.A.
It is recommend that once you have learnt the routine, to perform the routine 2 to 3 times a day, for five to ten minutes each time. Being consistent and following through with the routine on a daily basis is the key to ensuring relief for your baby as well as a useful preventative measure.
Idibidi Kids certified infant massage instructor will show you:
• Colic Relief Routine
• Touch relaxation and Resting hands
You will learn:
• Explain how the digestive system functions
• Provide useful tips and other techniques to help an infant with colic
•Provide you with the Colic Relief Routine picture guide
• Parent breathing and relaxation exercises
We provide you with much needed support in a nurturing and caring environment.
Help is a phone call away! Idibidi Kids will come to your home (or location), north, south or east of Perth in the metro. area. Evidence shows that babies settle quicker and are more responsive in familiar surroundings.
Sunday, 17 May 2009
Fathers bonding with their baby through infant massage
Idibidi Kids welcomes and encourages fathers to be involved as much as possible with the birth of their baby and to learn infant massage, with or without your wife/partner. There are many benefits of learning to massage your baby, please view http://www.idibidikids.com.au/infantmassage.htm
Monday, 11 May 2009
How lullabies can help your child sleep
Research suggests that humans are programmed to respond to music. Proof of this, says Dr. Mark Tramo, director of the Institute For Music and Brain Science, is that there is no known human culture without music."We have an innate predisposition to be able to apprehend an emotion and meaning in music," said Tramo. "When you listen to a baby babble,... they're experimenting with their voice and learning how to make vocal sounds by using the vocal apparatus as an instrument -- the first musical instrument was voice..."This might be a good explanation why mothers all over the world instinctively help their babies get to sleep by humming and singing. What could be more soothing to a baby than hearing a soft song, sung by a mother's loving voice?The science and healing aspects of music have been proven. Slow tempos, triple meters and simple harmonies have been effective in relaxing and calming babies. But the indisputable proof of music's effectiveness is when babies fall peacefully asleep to either soft music or a lullaby sung by it's mother or someone familiar to the baby.When I was a young mother, I discovered a winning formula to help baby sleep and I have used it with my grandchildren: Get comfortable, preferably in a rocking chair, and hold your baby while softly humming or playing beautiful instrumental music, (music with vocals proved to be distracting to the baby who seemed to prefer it's mother's voice or instrumental music). Take slow, deep breaths to calm yourself. Your baby will intuit your calmness and relax even more.This has always worked for me, and not only did the baby get a good night's sleep, so did I!
Patrice Cosier, MA
Patrice's website is www.goodnightlullabies.com
Friday, 10 April 2009
KidzaBuzz voucher book giveaway!
Monday, 30 March 2009
This includes afternoon tea and a light dinner.
Topics presented include:
• Child Safety
• Home Safety – child proofing your house
• Cord Blood Harvesting
• Birth
• Post Natal Depression
• Feeding
• Settling
Saturday, 31 January 2009
Sweet Dreams Baby... tips to help assist your baby to sleep
Using researched techniques and a gentle, nurturing approach, combined with (currently 9 years) experience as a mother of two will help you to assist your little one to sleep (day AND night)....
1. Learn your baby's tired signs (cue's) - it is very important for you to know and understand your baby's tired signs if you want your baby to fall asleep easier and reduce tears and tantrums! When your baby is showing 'tired signs', you need to give him reassurance and tell your child it's time for sleep - (TIP: be firm and consistent when putting child to bed. Older babies and toddlers will often 'fight' going to bed). Many say this is the 'window of opportunity', because if you keep your baby awake through play or other stimulation, he will quickly become over-tired and it will become harder to settle your baby to sleep (especially with newborns). Some signs to look out for include:
- yawning
- grimacing
- rubbing the eyes
- clenched fists
- jerking movements
- losing interest in toys and their surroundings
- fussing
- grizzly
- clumsy (older baby/child)
- crying (by now your child is overtired!)
For an older baby, missing a sleep during the day e.g due to over-stimulation, does not necessarily mean he will sleep better during the night. Often it is the opposite and they may wake more during the night (see also point 11.) (TIP: even from 1 to 2 yrs of age, young children still need at least one day sleep). The secret is to put your baby to sleep when they FIRST start to show signs of tiredness!
2. Establish a soothing bedtime ritual (including a 'wind down' period in the evening) -
A bedtime ritual or routine at night is a wonderful way to relax your child but more importantly, prepare them for bed. Ideally, a soothing ritual eg using calming/relaxing music, together with the TV off or volume low, lights dimmed is a good indicator for your child that bedtime is approaching. You could also incorporate into your bedtime ritual - reading a book or two (age appropriate, pictures rather than words for young babies), whilst snuggling up together with a blankie; maybe a warm bath (more suitable for babies over 6 months. For young babies or newborns a bath can often be too stimulating; top and tail is best. Bath water can be drying on a newborn's delicate skin and strip the natural oils on their skin), breast milk or a bottle and a massage (refer to point #3 below). Routines are reassuring and predictable for babies - this helps them settle quicker to ensure a good night's sleep!
3. Massage - Massaging your baby (the earlier you start the better) has many benefits, both for you and bubs. (TIP: you can massage your baby from birth). Regularly massaging your baby on a daily basis will help establish a better sleep pattern. Nurturing touch through massage releases the sleep hormone, melatonin. For further reading on why massage is so important for babies and how massage will help your baby with sleep, see Idibidi Kids BLOG post December 2008, "Sleep problems and babies: how massage can assist your baby to sleep". Learning massage with an instructor when they are a newborn gives your baby time to learn and understand what massage is and that massage can be very relaxing for them. This way they can "grow" with the feeling of massage as you incorporate it into your daily routine. The secret to success with massage is offering it to your child on a DAILY basis for them to receive the many benefits associated with massage and positive, nurturing touch. Repetition is an important part of your child's learning and development. Please note, for newborn babies under 5 months, avoid massaging after a bath in the evening. Certain massage strokes in particular can be too stimulating for a baby under 5 months. It is best to incorporate massage time during the day after your baby's sleep, at a time suitable to both you and your baby.
5. Your diet and breastfeeding - cut down your intake of caffeine and alcohol and avoid smoking. Keep in mind that breastfeeding your child is only a small portion of their life. Maintaining a healthy diet whilst feeding your baby is important for their health, growth and brain development. Increase foods in your diet that contain complex carbohydrates, protein, iron, zinc, calcium and essential fatty acids. Make sure you drink plenty of water! (TIP: drink a glass of water each time you feed your baby).
6. Swaddling - Swaddling is, in fact, an age-old practice that first developed around 4000B.C. These days it can be done using muslin cloth or specially designed 'winged' swaddle wraps (takes the 'fun' out of wrapping yourself!). Swaddling gives your baby a sense of security, (as it was once surrounded for 9 months in utero), and promotes a sounder sleep by staying in the REM sleep period for longer. Some say it does help reduce crying. Babies tend to startle whilst asleep which may disturb their sleep and they may even cry out. Known as the 'startle' or 'moro' reflex, babies will usually fling their arms and legs out and make jerky movements. Swaddling your newborn is a practical way to help your baby through the transition stage in his new life. It can be continued until your baby becomes more active, usually around 5 months of age or when they are rolling and crawling. (TIP: experiment with swaddling techniques to suit your baby. Some babies prefer one arm out or their feet exposed). By around 5 months or sometimes earlier, it is important to let your baby move freely whilst asleep as they process what they have 'learnt' or been exposed to during the day.
7. What's the difference between day and night time sleep? A young baby (newborn in the first couple of months) cannot tell the difference between day and night. Babies circadian rhythm (their natural body clock) starts anywhere from 6 to 14 weeks old (usually around 3 months). You can help your baby by keeping the house relatively light during the day, even whilst they are sleeping (unless you have block-out curtains in baby's bedroom, it wont be as dark as it is at night time). At night it is important to keep talking and movement to a minimum, to encourage your baby to settle themselves back to sleep.
8. Mummy's scent - to help your baby settle to sleep, he may be comforted by a piece of your clothing or something that has a familiar scent on it, like your body scent. You could tuck this into the side of the cot or underneath the sheet. Your body scent will also help with the parent-infant bonding process.
10. Room temperature - babies and toddlers may wake during the night if they are feeling cold or too hot. Ensure they are dressed appropriately and try to maintain an even room temperature. Even in summer the nights can be cool, especially in the early hours of the morning. You may like to try a 'grobag' for your baby : this way, babies who roll out of the covers are kept at a constant temperature (if babies could talk they might say "thanks Mum and Dad, my very first sleeping bag"!!)
11. Stimulation during the day - too much? A newborn can be overstimulated quite easily. Usually 20 minutes is enough play time for a young baby. Forget the gyms and fancy toys; your new baby craves love, nurturing and attention. Simply looking into your baby's eyes and talking to your baby builds trust and helps form a secure attachment between you and your child. A great book I often refer to is called "Baby Play - 100 fun-filled activities to maximise your baby's potential", a Gymboree book by Dr. W. Masi & Dr. R. Leiderman.
12. A little note on crying - you can never spoil a newborn with love! When he cries, offer a cuddle, a kiss, some gentle stroking over his clothes or a massage. Your newborn needs to know you are there for him! As long as all his other needs are met (e.g hunger, nappy change, too hot or too cold) he may just need reassuring. Babies need to feel safe and loved. This is important, too, for their psychological and physiological development. Research shows babies who are nurtured, loved and attended to when distressed, grow into healthier children who are able to cope better with stress later on in life.
Monday, 12 January 2009
Reflux in babies and Massage
By: Natalie Garmson, CIMI, MISI, Ass.Dip Sc, Cert I Aromatherapy, W.A. state rep. (International Association of Infant Massage)
The digestive system and the vagus nerve: a brief overview
Digestion is controlled by the Autonomic Nervous System (ANS), in particular, a branch of the ANS called the parasympathetic nervous system (1). Here you will find the vagus nerve (sometimes referred to as the vagal nerve). The vagus nerve sends signals from the brain to the stomach, pancreas and other digestive organs such as the oesophagus; its main use being to regulate the function of these major organs. The oesophagus is essentially a muscle under the control of the vagus nerve (2). The muscle at the lower end of the oesophagus (closest to the stomach) is the lower sphincter; this valve relaxes and contracts to allow food to pass through to the stomach. It is the lower oesophageal sphincter contracting that prevents the reflux reaction occurring. If this muscle is immature or weak, your child may experience reflux (Gastro-Oesophageal Reflux or GOR for short). Food passes down the oesophagus to the stomach by a series of wave-like contractions, known as peristalsis, forcing the sphincter muscle to contract and relax. The vagus nerve also controls peristalsis (2).
How human touch influences the vagus nerve:
The ANS comprises the sympathetic and parasympathetic branches. When your baby cries and is in pain (a symptom of reflux), the sympathetic branch is stimulated, releasing stress hormones such as adrenaline and cortisol (4). The sympathetic nervous system overpowers the parasympathetic (calm and relaxed) system (3). This is where the power of touch is in your hands. If you consider how massage can be used to effectively relax a tight muscle, normally you would directly massage that area and the muscle would loosen, however this becomes difficult in the case of reflux. When considering how massaging your baby is able to relieve symptoms of reflux, it helps to understand how the skin and the nervous system are connected. Massage on any area of the body is able to assist a reflux baby by stimulation of the vagus nerve and thus an increase in effectiveness of muscle control and regulation (remembering it is the vagus nerve that controls the lower sphincter in the oesophagus). Why is this so? Because the skin and the nervous system develop from the same cell layer (4). An increase in the amount and frequency of skin stimulation (eg pressure via massage) means that the vagus nerve is able to operate faster and more efficiently. This should result in greater muscle control. Remember, relief from reflux won’t happen overnight. Consistency is the key, especially to relieve the symptoms of reflux in infants. It has been suggested that massaging your baby twice a day for a reflux baby can help relieve symptoms. As one infant massage instructor recalls “I remember one little four month old girl… she had been diagnosed with reflux but her parents had seen no improvement after trying medications and various formulas. After introducing a simple massage routine twice a day, her parents reported complete improvement after only two weeks!” (6).
Did you know?
Touch is the earliest sense to develop in all animal species. (4). Massaging your baby is a wonderful way of communicating to your newborn through positive, nurturing touch. It is amazing to think that by the end of the fourth month of development, the skin is formed. You may also see the skin referred to in text books as ‘integument’ which forms a part of the integumentary system (5).
Recommendations for massaging a reflux baby:
There are a few considerations that need to be taken into account when massaging a baby who suffers from reflux.
(1) Alter the position of your baby for massage. Preferably lay your baby on a forty five (45) degree angle (as opposed to lying on the floor in front of you). You can do this simply by adding some cushions or a pillow, supporting their back and head or using a specially designed reflux sleeping wedge or reflux change mat (eg see http://www.pollywogbaby.com/ sleep wedge or http://www.buboo.com.au/ ). Note: you may want to experiment with the angle at which your baby sleeps. A lower angle (eg 15 degrees) may not be beneficial to assist a baby with reflux. An angle up to 45 degrees is recommended.
(2) If you baby’s abdomen is tender or you think he/she may posit, avoid massaging this area.
(3) When massaging your baby’s back, instead of them lying on their tummy on the floor, consider lying your baby on his/her side whilst remaining in a forty five degree angle, or try the cuddle position. This is where you cuddle your baby, using one hand to support their bottom and legs, whilst the other hand massages their back. It is important ensure your body is supported, for example, by leaning back on a sofa whilst sitting comfortably on the floor.
For practical advice and further information about reflux, silent reflux and Gastro-oesophageal Reflux Disease (GORD) and products available for reflux:
http://www.pollywogbaby.com/ Practical Solutions for Infant Reflux and Colic
http://www.reflux.org.au/ Reflux Infants Support Association Inc. Australia
http://www.infantreflux.org/ Infant Reflux Solutions For Your Baby!
References:
1. Nutritional Biochemistry, 2nd ed, Tom Brody, Academic Press, 1999, U.S.A.
2. Smith, Margaret.E, Morton, Dion.G, The Digestive System: Basic Science and Clinical Conditions Elsevier Health Sciences, 2001.
3. Sunderland,M. The Science of Parenting. DK Ltd, 2006, London, Great Britain
4. Field, T. Touch M.I.T, 2001, Massachusetts, U.S.A
5. Marieb,E. Human Anatomy & Physiology, 5th ed. Benjamin Cummings, 2001, U.S.A.
6. McLoughlin,H. I.M.I.S Infant Massage Training Manual, “Can Massage Help Reflux?” article, Australia, 2007 (an excert from the R.I.S.A NSW newsletter 2007)
Books Ive Read...
- Frederick Leboyer: Loving Hands, The Traditional Art of Baby Massage
- Kerstin Uvnas Moberg: The Oxytocin Factor
- Tiffany Field: Touch
- Vimala McClure: Infant Massage, A Handbook for Loving Parents